Saturday, June 9, 2012

Am I A Failure?



Back then, I would define my life simply as " Success - Failure"
It's as if it was either a "Yes" or a "No"
But what  is "Success" anyway?
or even the term "Failure" ?
It simply does not describe your WHOLE LIFE!
rather, it simply means you are  perfectly human,
with capacity to succeed in some aspects,
and capacity to fail in some others.

I've loved, I've laughed and cried.
I've had my fill; my share of losing.
And now, as tears subside,
I find it all so amusing.

To think I did all that;

And may I say - not in a shy way,
"No, oh no not me,
I did it my way".


- Frank Sinatra's My Way

Yes, I am responsible for what I am now,
the sum total of all the decisions I made before.
No one to blame.

I am glad that early in my life I come across an inspiring quote :

At age 20, we worry about what others think of us;
At 40, we don't care what they think of us;
At 60, we discover they haven't been thinking about us at all!
- Jock Falkson

I think life would not be so stressful if one realizes that we live our
own lives according to the dictates of our psyche and not to live it
the way others want us to be.

I do my thing and you do your thing.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world to live up to mine.
You are you, and I am I,
and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful.
If not, it can't be helped.

(Fritz Perls, "Gestalt Therapy Verbatim", 1969)

Guess this explains why I am happy and contended,
and you are not!







Friday, May 4, 2012

Wisdom Tooth Extraction from Confused Zeus








                                                                  what if time freezes, 
                                                                  no beginnings; no end.
                                                                  at what age will you rather be?
                                                           
                                                                     
                                                                  If there is no solution,
                                                                  It’s not a problem

Monday, February 13, 2012

Thought Extractions


  • Why are we NOT created equal? Think what will happen if we are all "bosses"
  • When was the last time you made a right decision in times of anger? 
  • We buy things we don't need; With money we don't have; what for? to impress people we don't even know!  
  •  A foolish man tells a woman to stop talking,but a wise man tells her that her mouth is extremely beautiful when her lips are closed. 
  • The greatest thing in life is NOT you have met the right one;but you have met somebody who wants to be the RIGHT one.
  • If others cannot understand me, I guess its because I cannot understand myself in the first place! 
  • If everybody has his own mansion in heaven, think how lonely it will be living all alone! 
  • Marriage Vows :
          "For Richer or Poorer" - whether I have money or jobless;
          "In sickness or In Health" - whether I am healthy or is dying; 
          "Till Death Do Us Part" - you cannot get away from me even if I am jobless and dying!
  • Never decide when you are angry;  Never promise when you are happy.     
  • Please don’t get angry with me;
    ‘cause I have no time to get angry with you. 
  • You think I am happy? Of course. I have no choice.
  •  If you look at what you have in life,
    You'll always have more.
    If you look at what you don't have in life,
    You'll never have enough
    . ~ Oprah Winfrey
  • Don't beat the red light;                                                                                                               Next time it turns green,You'll be the first to go anyway. 
 ----Tooth Appointments ----
  • Marc 9,2012 Friday              
          It  is better to keep  your mouth closed;
         And let people think you are a fool;
         Than to open it and remove all doubt.
  • March 8,2012 Thursday
    Friend : You don’t want to work anymore?  You’re still young!
    Me      :  Would I rather follow your plan of enjoying it at an old age?








  

Sunday, February 12, 2012

Maksim - Somewhere in Time


                                                                    
Do you really believe you can meet that person "somewhere in time"?



Saturday, February 11, 2012

Sites When I Am Happy ; Sites When I Am Sad


 www.i-am-bored.com
http://www.iserenity.com/environments/

or

No Website At All

If  I'm feeling down, I think one of the best things  is go outside and take a walk.
Taking a few minutes to just stroll outside can do wonders.
or as Petula Clark recommends - Downtown!






Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Better Than Watching Impeachment Proceedings


    
Oceans apart, yet....    
...And even though I know how very far apart we are
It helps to think we might be LOOKING at the same FULL MOON.
 - revised from "An American Tail" 
 
damn....
nice song
nice lyrics
you seldom hear anymore today. 

Saturday, January 28, 2012

Marriage Failures


                                                              
- From  " The Last Married Couple In America"

Why do some marriages fail?
maybe they gave the wrong answers.
(we're doing 34 and going...) 


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